SMS

Jaya18- hi Im 21 f looking for true love!!!!!!!!! To start chatting, reply S jaya 18 msg to block the user SMS BLOCK jaya18

Sonali- love the heart that hurts you but never hurt the heart that loves you…..

Roja18 – hi gm I wanna chat with u

Jasmine – hi handsome had a coffee………………….

Ashi82 – hi ! how r u . this is ashita a 25 yrs married girl. My husband gone out of state . I am alone at my home feeling bore. Would u like 2 b my frnd. Will u plz give me ur ph. No….waiting for ur reply….

Jasmine- I wanna chat with u…….

pallavi_28 – hi wanna chat with me???????????????

Well these are not SMS from my Lover or girlfriends!!! They are messages from a very reputed mobile service provider.

Sometimes when I get these messages I really feel like knowing the faces behind them. Not because I am interested in having a friendship with one but to understand their mental state. I don’t understand how people can write to a complete stranger and ask for their numbers in the very first message. Or for that matter say that they love the other person without even knowing whether they are a man or woman!!!! or if they are old enough to be their grandfather!

(I strongly believe that this is machine generated!!!! I have reasons for that – there are some messages that say “ hi handsum if you love me send me 15 messages that you love me and I will give you my telephone number and address” and why wud someone on the first place need 15 messages to know that the stranger on the other side will write that unless he is a ……..)

And then there are the high end messages - “hi dear kya kar rahe ho??” “mera pati nahin hain….state ke bahar gaye hain…..mein bedroom mein akele houn… kya much se sexy bath karenge?”

My reply to this mess will be-

Arre bhai yeha to apne patni ke sath sexy bath karne ka time nahin hain to phir aap see kaise kare???

Every Christian in India is a 'Hindu'

All this unnecessary furore over burning churches, buildings and bridges! It really is a battle of semantics because when you get down to it, neither Hinduism nor Christianity are religions — both are lifestyles.

The word Hindu comes from Sindu, which is the name for the River Indus. All those living east of the River Sindu were called Hindus. So the word Hindu is a geographical term, not a religious one. The actual religion of the Hindus is the Sanathana Dharma, which means ‘the ancient way of life’ — a combination of faith, duties and one’s vocation. Hindus are required to find their purpose in life and pursue it forever. So in the strict sense of the term, as long as one lives in India and follows any religion of one’s choice, one is still a Hindu.

People genuinely search for god, and when they cannot find god, they seek after gurus who will lead them to god. The word guru refers to a person who brings people from darkness to light. When a person talks about “knowing Christ” (not knowing about Christ), it is a deep and personal relationship with Jesus Christ, accepting Him as Saviour and living life according to His principles, which centre around love and forgiveness. The process has little in common with evident Christianity with its buildings, rites and rituals. To burn a church is a tragic act, however, it does not injure Christ.

Further, it is possible to be a Christian and not know Christ; it is equally possible to be a Hindu and know Christ. Ultimately, who is the true follower of Christ — the Hindu or the Christian? There are thousands of Indians who know Christ but do no want to be known as Christians because of the ‘excess baggage’ that accompanies the term, the pain of the past and the indignities that were imposed on human beings in India by people who called themselves Christian.

In fact, Mahatma Gandhi, when once asked to convert to Christianity, said, “To me, to be a good Hindu also means that I am a good Christian. There is no need for me to join your creed to be a believer in the beauty and teachings of Christ.”

And yet, while it is apparent that most Christians have failed to deliver the gospel message as god intended them to, Christ does not depend on Christians to manifest His divine glory and power. Spiritual people need to believe in Christ and accept Him for what He has done for them and not on what Christians do or do not do.

The genuine follower of Christ in today’s turbulent times in India will not meet the hostility through aggression or through a martyr complex, but will try to undo the damage of the past by living and manifesting the message of the gospel, which when translated into everyday life, is the message of love.

Meanwhile, every Hindu can also realise that responding to the gospel is not a contradiction to the Hindu search for truth because Jesus is the fulfilment of god, of seekers of the Truth right from ancient Vedic times:

Asatoma sat gamaya (Bring me from the unreal to the truth). Jesus says, “I am the way and the truth and the life”;

Tamasoma jyotir gamaya (Bring me from darkness to light). Jesus says, “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life”;

Mrityorma amritam gamaya (Bring me from mortality to immortality). Jesus says, “I am the resurrection and the life. He who believes in me will live, even though he dies; and whoever lives and believes in me will never die.”

"Every Christian in India is a 'Hindu'"
By Ingrid Albuquerque appeared in the Deccan Herald on the 19th of September 2008.

Hancock Tower

This was one thing I wanted to be on after the Sears Tower.....We went the first day - Me and Binoy, they told us that the visibility was very low so we will not be able to see more than a mile... so we decided to try it the next day.

Next day was bright and sunny and we went up there - 94 Floors!!!!!

And this is a view from up there ........

King Lear

I took this at the Michigan Avenue..... I was reminded of this pic by the movie "The last Lear".

This 20 something feet statue was created by J. Seward Johnson. Looking from afar I thought it was Christ with the crown of thorns on his head... but when i got close and saw it was King Lear. It seems like the statue is looking away from something.. the sun ... the buildings...

Friendship day

My daughter on friendship day!!!! I cant count how many of them she has on her arm!!!!

My son literally was sobbing that he didnt have any friends as his sister had... and so she had to give some of the bands to him so that his "ego" was taken care of!

My Son

I need to add this ... just yesterday my sons school called me and told me that my son was not well and that I need to pick him up from school... I asked my brother to get him home since I was at work... in the evening when i reached my brother place to pick him i saw him enjoying with my brothers kids. I was like - you are sick son!!!

On asking him the reason why he was sick he replies - " the guy sitting next to me was having a stomach ache and crying... so I also started crying!!!!"

Talk about unity in diversity!!!!

Been a long long time.......

Its been a long long time since i last scribbled in any thing....just decided that from today onwards I will dedicate some time to this......

Well a cool monday so far... not feeling that great... I miss my family very much... just spoke to my sweetheart... was great listening to her... not her usual nagging self.... LOL...

I have so much to be done at work.. billing ...billing...billing...money!! money!! money!! thats all what the world looks for.

I am down to do some billing for the day... lets see where that leads to.... the construction at the site is going as expected, so am not that worried about it....I am just hoping that all goes well there... have a very tight schedule need to complete most of the things by weekend.

Its Sunday!!!!

Wow its sunday!!! I didnt realise when i went to bed last night..... wanted to write more but I guess the spirit was willing but the body was weak......

Got up made my bed ... finished my morning duties and called Mom ( my second mom, Well I have "two" Parents- one who brought me into this world and one who taught me the way of LIFE!!!), she is not keeping well and I dont know why I am so worried about her.... some kind of fear deep inside me... She is doing fine and I am relieved....she is getting the house ready for today worship service which is at home. They are having a luncheon wthout me....Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.... I will miss the "biriyani".Well guys have your fill and do remember me too....

I miss my naughty brats.... and my pretty wife...waiting for 25th to come when i will be home....

The day was hectic with a heavy lunch and a small meeting.... went back to construction site and got back home and jit the sack...zzzz.z.z.z..z.z.z..z.z.z.z..z.z.z

01...02..03...04...05...and now 06

Well I have been thinking for almost an year now of having my own blog.... but somehow it just didnt work out.... and then today i came up on a friends blog and was so enthu about it that I thought why wait lets do it today.....and so finally six days after new years here I am writing my very own personal blog.

At Work.......

Today was a day of review at work...how i hate reviews... not the ones I have with my reportees but the one I have with my bosses.... it was a sleepless night yesterday... I woke up quite early and got ready and was at work by 8:30am...( well I guess my client is also sleepless he was there before me!!!!)

Finally the boss arrived.... well all bosses are the same they are never happy ;-)... the meetings went fine...and finally after a late lunch I was left without the boss and with a bad headache....got back to the apartment and wanted to take a nap... just then comes a call from a good friend.. and presto the headache is gone.... had a nice chat and finally sat down to get this blog up....